Rebecca (beeker121) wrote,

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Note to self

When someone apologizes to you the proper automatic response is "thank you", not "it's fine / okay". Because sometimes it's not okay. Acknowlegement of the apology is important, diminishing the wrong done isn't always the right choice.

Or it could stop being a wrong in the apologizer's eyes. Which is not the correct direction for the behavior to be modified.


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